Nonsense it wouldnt be nearly as bad as you think. His number one goal of all time is to make dave happy after all. And I dont think its much to presume that being with you makes him happy considering hed like to marry you someday. So why not try it.
OK SO LET'S FORGET ABOUT ALL OF THAT FOR A SECOND HERE. JUST SHOVE THAT TO THE OTHER SIDE OF THE TABLE SO WE CAN BRING FORTH ANOTHER TOPIC THAT IS RELATED TO THIS TO THE FOREFRONT. DID DAVE SPECIFICALLY SAY HE WANTED TO MARRY *ME* SOMEDAY OR WAS HE JUST TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE IN GENERAL?
OK BUT I JUST WANT TO MAKE SURE THAT HE ACTUALLY MEANT LIKE ME AND THAT HE WASN'T TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE AS A GENERAL AND VAGUE CONCEPT. THIS IS AN IMPORTANT DISTINCTION TO MAKE? AS YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN ENGAGED, ENGLISH, YOU HAVE NOT FELT THE VAST DISAPPOINTMENT WHEN YOUR FIANCÉ BREAKS OFF YOUR ENGAGEMENT. SO I KIND OF NEED TO MAKE ABSOLUTE SURE THAT HE ACTUALLY DOES WANT THIS TO BE A THING EVENTUALLY?
Of course he does though i understand your hesitance. This is straight from the brothers mouth which is much better than the horses. But marriage is... hmm... how to put this... We all grew up in a very abnormal way? So we all get really excited when we get to do things normal humans got to do. Dave wants a happy nice normal human marriage someday with you. Im certain theres no one else hed want to share that with.
ALL HE SAID WAS THAT WHAT I DID WAS NOT "REALLY PROPOSING" AND HE TOOK BACK HIS ACCEPTANCE OF THE PROPOSAL THAT WAS DEFINITELY A GODDAMN PROPOSAL. FUCK YOU DAVE.
Well you know him better than i do but he probably doesnt want to accept until he understands youre serious and that you understand what marriage means to him. Which you guys should talk about btw. Open honest communication is the key to a healthy marriage.
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Hes good at this.
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I FEEL LIKE THAT WOULD END UP BEING PRETTY FUCKING AWKWARD FOR ALL PARTIES.
I AM NOT GOING TO DIRK TO ASK FOR ADVICE REGARDING DATING HIS BROTHER
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His number one goal of all time is to make dave happy after all. And I dont think its much to presume that being with you makes him happy considering hed like to marry you someday.
So why not try it.
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JUST SHOVE THAT TO THE OTHER SIDE OF THE TABLE SO WE CAN BRING FORTH ANOTHER TOPIC THAT IS RELATED TO THIS TO THE FOREFRONT.
DID DAVE SPECIFICALLY SAY HE WANTED TO MARRY *ME* SOMEDAY
OR WAS HE JUST TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE IN GENERAL?
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And thus my job as a human marriage educator.
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AND THAT HE WASN'T TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE AS A GENERAL AND VAGUE CONCEPT.
THIS IS AN IMPORTANT DISTINCTION TO MAKE?
AS YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN ENGAGED, ENGLISH, YOU HAVE NOT FELT THE VAST DISAPPOINTMENT WHEN YOUR FIANCÉ BREAKS OFF YOUR ENGAGEMENT.
SO I KIND OF NEED TO MAKE ABSOLUTE SURE THAT HE ACTUALLY DOES WANT THIS TO BE A THING EVENTUALLY?
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We all grew up in a very abnormal way? So we all get really excited when we get to do things normal humans got to do.
Dave wants a happy nice normal human marriage someday with you. Im certain theres no one else hed want to share that with.
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I WAS VERY SERIOUS WHEN I ASKED ABOUT IT THE FIRST TIME
BUT THEN HE WENT AND SAID THAT DIDN'T COUNT.
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AND HE TOOK BACK HIS ACCEPTANCE OF THE PROPOSAL THAT WAS DEFINITELY A GODDAMN PROPOSAL.
FUCK YOU DAVE.
OH WELL.
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Which you guys should talk about btw.
Open honest communication is the key to a healthy marriage.
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???????
UGH I KNOW
FINE I'LL TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT.