Alright we are backing up here. Whoop whoop whoop. That is the sound of a semi-truck hitting the reverse pedal. Yuuko, why aren't you sure if you're dating? I, admittedly, am not an expert on asking people out but.... Let's start from the beginning here.
[ because everything happens so much and yuuko is a mess ]
well i see him and text him everyday and i know i'm really important to him but he hasn't called me his girlfriend or even asked me to be even though it feels like we're already at that point
I think you need to find out for sure. Like it sounds like you might be but this is definitely the kind of thing where misunderstandings might happen?? If you don't want to just flat out ask him we could always attempt to be sneaky about finding out.
You could always go on what would be a typical date-like situation and pay attention to what happens. Even if he is super affectionate or whatever, if you're dating now then there should be somewhat of a difference between how he treated you before versus now. Unless he truly is the smoothest fucker out there, in which case we will be in hard mode.
Would you feel comfortable kissing him I guess?? Or doing any other really PDA shit. I mean we know a lot of really PDA-y people who are just friends so this might not work that well but it's a good gauge.
ah, sweet and innocent karkat! well kisses on the lips have been tainted for me now so i think cheek kisses are pretty romantic intimate yet pure that's better than just any old kiss, right?
I wouldn't know, Yuuko!! Even if it turns out you and Ryoji aren't official you still got more experience than I have. I personally think forehead kisses are probably more romantic though?
If you slice my cheeks off you are depriving me of cheek kisses and then how will I ever know how apparently great they are? Hand kisses just seem more flirtatious.
Although we are ignoring something very important and it's the context. Like depending on what is going on at the same, a hand kiss might be better than a forehead kiss, etc
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is what i want to say, but...
um...
i'm not sure if we're dating?
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Whoop whoop whoop.
That is the sound of a semi-truck hitting the reverse pedal.
Yuuko, why aren't you sure if you're dating?
I, admittedly, am not an expert on asking people out but.... Let's start from the beginning here.
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well
i see him and text him everyday
and i know i'm really important to him
but he hasn't called me his girlfriend
or even asked me to be
even though it feels like we're already at that point
[ but at least she has pizza. thanks, man. ]
what do you think?
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Like it sounds like you might be but this is definitely the kind of thing where misunderstandings might happen??
If you don't want to just flat out ask him we could always attempt to be sneaky about finding out.
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ooh, like a top secret mission?
i'm in!
so what's the plan?
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Even if he is super affectionate or whatever, if you're dating now then there should be somewhat of a difference between how he treated you before versus now.
Unless he truly is the smoothest fucker out there, in which case we will be in hard mode.
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[ how does she tell karkat that they started dating after only talking like, two or three times
maybe she shouldn't
yeah
that's a smart thing to do ]
what's hard mode?
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Or doing any other really PDA shit.
I mean we know a lot of really PDA-y people who are just friends so this might not work that well but it's a good gauge.
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[ I MEAN YEAH THERE'S YATO BUT no one needs to know she kissed Anya too. Yuuko doesn't want to be a kissing FIEND. ]
but i don't mind as long as it's not on the lips
[ she's been burned too many times... ]
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Cheek kisses can be romantic I guess.
[ karkat would blush and be flustered at just a cheek kiss tbh. ]
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well
kisses on the lips have been tainted for me now
so i think cheek kisses are pretty romantic
intimate yet pure
that's better than just any old kiss, right?
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Even if it turns out you and Ryoji aren't official you still got more experience than I have.
I personally think forehead kisses are probably more romantic though?
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no, you're right
what about hand kisses though?
he kind of kissed my hand
we need to get the hierarchy of kisses in order!
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Cheek kiss
Forehead kiss
Hand kiss
????
What are we missing?
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i think the rest are too kinky to be here!
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Ok we can keep all of the rest off of the list then.
So rate them.
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do you have something against cheek kisses
what did cheek kisses ever do to you
i'll slice your cheeks off
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Hand kisses just seem more flirtatious.
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oh ]
you're right
i take back what i said...
i'll go with your ranking
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Like depending on what is going on at the same, a hand kiss might be better than a forehead kiss, etc
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what sort of context?
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